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Last Friday of the holy month Ramadan 1442 H

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As stated, the Quran was revealed in the month of Ramadan. But how was it revealed to our Prophet Muhammad s.a.w for the first time and what are the first few verses that were revealed to him? Well, it all started when Prophet Muhammad s.a.w was sitting in the cave of Hira’ on a mountain called The Mountain of Light also known as ‘Jabal Nur’. As Prophet Muhammad s.a.w felt restless and helpless with the decadence of the Meccan Quraisy, the Prophet s.a.w found peace and solace during his seclusion in the cave of Hira’. Little did he know that one of the days of his stay in the cave, that Angel Jibril a.s. would visit him. But what happened when Jibril came to meet the Prophet Muhammad s.a.w? In a hadith reported by Sayyidatina Aisyah r.a. and narrated by Imam Al-Bukhari, “..The angel came to him and asked him to read. The Prophet s.a.w replied, "I do not know how to read.’’ The Prophet s.a.w added, "The angel caught me (forcefully) and pressed me so hard that I cou...

Music calms the mind

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Music is one of the most deeply and widely established ways for people to transcend their daily lives. its captivating aesthetic and expressive qualities have been an essential means for finding peace of mind. Aristotle asserted that “music ought to be used not as conferring one benefit only but many; for example, for education and cathartic purposes, as an intellectual pastime, as relaxation, and for relief after tension. However, it’s also important for us to step back and understand that although there is an apparent universality of sacred music, “music” does not have the same definition in all cultures or religions (or even denominations).

fear of making mistakes

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Don’t be fearful of trying new things or experiences. You literally won’t know what you are missing until you try it out. What does this quote mean, "The biggest mistake you could ever make is being too afraid to make one"? To say what it means it should say something like, “Don’t let your fear of making mistakes stop you from trying, risking, being bold” something like that. This is a good message on its face, at least in some respects, even if it’s put in the odd Commandment form. Looking at it with a more critical eye, however, the slogan seems one of those propaganda epigrams that says take serious risks, fearlessly pursue your dreams. I once put this in a song called Nothing At All.“Try all you dream, and if you fall, it won’t mean nothing at all” Listeners loved it. I considered it seriously misleading. Since this sort of thing has become so beloved, part of the American dream of opportunity boldly seized, that I’d like to stress the negative here if you’ll ...

Insignificance

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The power of progress is fundamental to human nature, but few managers understand it or know how to leverage progress to boost motivation. In fact, work motivation has been a subject of long-standing debate. If you are a manager, the progress principle holds clear implications for where to focus your efforts. It suggests that you have more influence than you may realize over employees’ well-being, motivation, and creative output. Knowing what serves to catalyze and nourish progress—and what does the opposite—turns out to be the key to effectively managing people and their work. Power of progress is fundamental to human nature, but few managers understand it or know how to leverage progress to boost motivation. In fact, work motivation has been a subject of long-standing debate. In a survey asking about the keys to motivating workers, we found that some managers ranked recognition for good work as most important, while others put more stock in tangible incentives. Some focus...

life is a revolution and adaptation is inevitable

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Understandably, as humans, we prefer social interaction. We thrive on the occasion to shake hands, look someone in the eye and take in all of their interactions with us. Accordingly, in the ideal world, there is no replacement to in-person arbitration. But we no longer live in the ideal world. The Covid-19 pandemic compels us to adapt to survive. Fortunately, technology has developed to make online arbitration a viable alternative, be it for the next couple months or for the years ahead. Online dispute resolution (ODR) has been with us for twenty years, although its use was for years largely limited to resolution of small claims by online retail providers. With each passing year, the use of ODR has expanded and it has been increasingly embraced by traditional ADR providers. As well, many mediators, in facing the challenge posed by the pandemic, have rushed to seek training on the use of Zoom and other videoconferencing technologies to conduct online mediations. To date, th...

family moments are priceless

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Between our demanding schedules and endless to-do lists, it can be hard to get the whole family together, and it becomes so easy to overlook taking professional family pictures. We may even start to forget why it is so important to capture fantastic life moments. Family photos are priceless treasures for everyone since nothing can replace them. They can have a profound and quick effect on the way we think about things. Every moment that you have together as a family is precious. from wedding anniversaries to welcoming a newborn to the family to an outdoor family session, each chapter of our lives deserves to be seized and preserved for the generations to come. Generally, in this era, taking photos is mainly to share with friends and on social media, and the idea that photos should last a lifetime slips typically out of our minds. As our family grows it's so important to capture those precious memories with beautiful family photos that will last a lifetime. In other word...

Destiny always wins

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A Bosnian couple has filed for divorce after discovering both having an online affair with each other under fake names. Both felt they found a soul mate at last until they met in person. Sana Klaric, 27, and Adnan, 32 from Zenica, Bosnia, had marital troubles, so they were secretly chatting and having an affair online. In an online chat forum, both husband and wife found each other unknowingly under assumed fake names (Sweetie and Prince of Joy) and both poured their hearts out about their marital problems. With time both realized they were perfect for each other and wanted to meet finally in person. But when they met in person, it wasn’t a happy ending, each accusing the other of unfaithful and filed for divorce. Sana said when they were chatting she realized how alike their marriages were both in trouble. And one day they decided to meet in person and have a rose with them to identify themselves, but when she saw Adnan carrying that rose, she felt betrayed and angry. Adna...